Adulting

This year, I decided to grow up a little more.

For years, I was afraid of moving to another country. Having to change my lifestyle, routines, and habits was unsettling and overwhelming. The uncertainty of not knowing if I would adapt to a new environment would always set me back. But you know what? Comfort is the enemy of progress.

I put on my big girl pants and made myself courageous. There’s courage in saying goodbye to all the places where you laughed so hard that you cried. To all the people you created an invisible bond with just by a warm “good afternoon.” There’s audacity in saying goodbye to all the delicious food you tasted at restaurants on your mythical restaurant list. To the birds that would visit. And of course, to friends and family who made it home.

But the memories are what keep a place alive. I now understand the feelings of friends of mine who relocated. When they pushed the conversation about moving abroad, they would say: Meet new people with different beliefs. Witness rituals of other cultures. Don’t just visit for 2 weeks. Move.

So now, in another country, while reminiscing, deep gratitude fills me. I feel so lucky for the people I have met and for the people I have yet to meet. I’m low-key obsessed with the main religion where I’m currently located. There’s magic here. I guess there’s magic everywhere if you decide to look for it.

Through this experience, I’ve learned that routines and habits are undoubtedly important, but it’s essential not to let them consume our lives. If we become too fixated on routines, we risk missing out on the spontaneity and joy that life has to offer. Embracing new experiences and breaking away from rigid routines can lead to personal growth and a deeper appreciation for life’s wonders.

Looking back on my journey, I realize how much I’ve grown. The fear that once held me back has transformed into excitement for the unknown. Moving to a new country hasn’t just changed my location; it’s changed my perspective on life. I’ve learned to find beauty in the unfamiliar, to create new bonds while cherishing old ones, and to see every day as an opportunity for discovery.

This decision to “grow up a little more” has taught me that growth often lies just outside our comfort zone. It’s in the courage to say goodbye, the willingness to embrace change, and the openness to find magic in new places. As I continue this adventure, I’m grateful for the person I’m becoming and excited for the experiences yet to come.

,abreijos